By T.D. Wood
Last updated: April 1, 2008
In This Article
"I like to play indoors better, 'cause that's where all the electrical outlets are."
— Paul, a fourth-grader from San Diego
"We've become a more sedentary society. When I was growing up in Detroit, we were always
outdoors. The kids who stayed indoors were the odd ones."
— a parent, Swarthmore, Pa.
From
Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder
, by Richard Louv
Fresh air; tall timber; amazing scenery; glimpses of wildlife; vast, memorable starlit
nights. Video games are simply no match for the full-scale sensory overload that nature
delivers, and a great way to convince anyone age 16 or younger of this truism is to invite
them along on a camping trip. Usually all it takes is one meteor bolting across the sky to
persuade any young adventurer-in-the-making of a fundamental fact of life — camping is
cool.
Before an Overnight Trip
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Practice camping at home: If your kids are outdoor newbies,
pitch a tent in the backyard or even inside your home. Let them hang out in it and sleep
in it so they become comfortable with a new sleeping environment.
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Take a trial run: Before your overnighter, try a family day
outing at a close-to-home park. Spend a half-day or so at a lakeshore or park and see
how your kids react to extended outdoor excursions.
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Take notes: Write down reminders for future trips: "Pack more
sunscreen." "Bring long pants." "Leave bongos home."
Preparing for a Trip
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Be enthusiastic: Why should kids get fired-up about an outdoor
adventure if you're not?
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Involve your kids: Make trip planning a family affair. Ask kids
for ideas of possible things to do or see at your destination. Take their input
seriously.
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Kids as packers: Give children the responsibility to pack their
own gear at home (using a list you've created). A parent should double-check a child's
packing job before leaving home.
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Keeping kids (somewhat) organized: Have your kids pack every
personal item in a duffel bag and encourage them to always return those items to that
duffel. ("Mom, where's my paddle ball set?" "Look in your duffel, dear.") Each child's
duffel should be a different color for easy identification.
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Favorite toys: Let kids bring some of their favorite playthings
so the campsite doesn't feel entirely foreign to them. Need ideas for new toys? View our
suggestions later in this article.
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Friends are valuable: It can be fun for kids to camp with
another family that has kids. Your kids may get bored with adults after a while. With
playmates, they could be happily occupied for days.
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Bring bikes: Bikes are handy in a campground, so consider
bringing a few along. If it's a long way from your campsite to the beach or play area,
it's faster (and more fun) to use a bike instead of walking or firing up your vehicle.
Bikes keep kids entertained, too.
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Check fire restrictions: Planning on a campfire? Before you
leave home, make some calls to determine if campfires are permitted at your chosen
campground. If not, make sure everyone in the family knows in advance. There's no bigger
disappointment to a kid who has packed all the s'more fixings than to discover that a
burn ban is in effect.

At the Campground
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Exude a positive vibe: Family-camping rule No. 1: Be prepared to
cope with inconvenience. Everything is in a different place. The bathroom is no longer
down the hall, it's six campsites down the path. As an adult, you must lead by example
with an upbeat, can-do attitude.
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Organize: Establish fixed locations for important items. "The
forks and spoons are in the blue tub." "Flashlights are in the green stuff sack."
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Then stay organized: Remind everyone to always return items to
their established locations so others can find them. If you're especially industrious,
create a reference list of where-to-find-it locations. Tape it some place obvious.
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Keep everyone oriented: Help kids memorize the number of your
campsite or point out landmarks ("We're four sites from the amphitheater") to help them
remember its location.
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Make kids feel important: Kids like to feel important and
involved. Assign them some meaningful camp chores, such as gathering firewood or
collecting water from the pump. Recognize their contributions with praise or a treat (or
both).
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Be safe: Make sure your kids always carry a whistle (teach them
to blow it if they become separated from you) and have easy access to a flashlight or
headlamp. Attach a lanyard to both the whistle and light and tie them to one of the
child's belt loops.
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Wildlife: Ask park rangers about wildlife activity in the area
you are visiting. As the adult, you need to take the lead and understand any precautions
necessary (such as proper food storage or how to react during an up-close encounter) for
safely coexisting with wildlife. Educate your children about the importance of not
feeding wild animals (it negatively alters their food-gathering patterns) and treating
wildlife with respect and caution so everyone stays safe.
When Outdoors, Be Outdoors
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Make the most of nature: Look for wildlife. Check out bugs.
Examine rocks. Identify birds, flowers, clouds, constellations. Lead kids on a rock
scramble. Show interest in things that interest them. Bring a field guide or two to help
you identify and learn about the things they find.
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Be active, stay loose: Try to keep your kids active without
following a regimented schedule. If they're entertained by skipping rocks on the water,
give them time to perfect the six-skip fling.
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Attend ranger talks: If you're camping at a state or national
park, attend the ranger's evening talk. Ask staff if the park offers a junior-naturalist
program or other kid-focused activities.
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Geocaching: A GPS-guided treasure hunt engages kids physically
and mentally. Check our link to geocaching to see if any caches are hidden in the area you'll be visiting.
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Share time together: "Hey, mom — remember when we saw that
deer?" Great memories are one of the great payoffs of a camping trip. Come home with the
sort of stories that can only be created outdoors. Shakespeare must have been camping
when he wrote, "One touch of nature makes the whole world kin."
Fun Stuff You Can Bring
Search for "toys" on REI.com to browse these recommendations and other fun ideas:
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Paddle ball set: At one of our photo shoots, the kids
accompanying our crew couldn't put this game down.
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Marshmallow launcher: Traditionally you toast them. Now you can
shoot them at one other, too. Imagine: The common marshmallow, transformed into a
summertime snowball.
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Animal-shaped flashlights: Leapin' lizards! Sharks, orcas and
toucans, too.
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Kites: The traditional shape now features high-tech materials;
and 3-D kites now fold flat. So go ahead, go fly a kite.
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Make ice cream: Have some low-tech fun (with delicious results)
with a boot-around plastic ball from Camper's Dream.
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Stream Machine: Camping in warm weather? If you can tolerate a
little flying water, this is a kid's ultimate way to cool off.
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Tracball: A classic from Wham-O, updated for a new century.
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The glowing, multicolor flying disc: Whoa, it's . . .
psychedelic, man. Illuminated with LEDs, this disc changes colors while you play.
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Foot sacks: So simple, so entertaining.
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Games: What? You haven't played "Pass the Pigs" or "Why Knot?"
Well, why not?
Summary
- Practice camping close to home before taking a long, faraway outing.
- Involve kids in the planning for a camping trip.
- If possible, invite playmates to come along with your kids.
- Seek out activities unique to the outdoors.
- Focus on fun; let kids be kids.
Contributor: Doug Peterson, REI product manager for fun gear and father of 2 daughters
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